I really don't want to butt in here, as I don't know the whole story - from any side. But, I do know that Joel hasn't logged into the site in several weeks. Also I have heard that the email address listed is no longer valid. Same for his phone number. So any attempts to contact him via email or phone will not reach him. I do know he has change jobs, has been working extended long hours.
Again, I don't know the whole story and I'm not discounting the anguish all parties here are experiencing. But, as we all know, life gets into the way of some of our hobbies and pursuits. Please give Joel the benefit of the doubt here. That's all I'm saying.
Sorry for butting in here, as I obviously don't know the whole story.